As 2009 comes to a close and we bid it farewell, I wonder what else we can say goodbye to?
How about lingering ex's? (Just thought of a new term for them: helicopter ex's)
Answering 3 a.m. booty calls and hoping that they mean anything beyond the fact that someone wants some booty.
Killing off a bottle of wine or gallon of ice cream (or both) because you-know-who didn't call.
Directing anger and hostility toward "other women" (it's really not about them, is it?)
Letting what someone else does or says (or doesn't do or say) dictate how you feel about yourself.
Staying in a relationship that doesn't work for you anymore just to protect someone's feelings, or because you're afraid of being alone.
What are you willing to let go of along with 2009? What do you want more of in 2010, and what are you willing to do in order to get it?
Happy New Year,
The BreakUp Coach
How about lingering ex's? (Just thought of a new term for them: helicopter ex's)
Answering 3 a.m. booty calls and hoping that they mean anything beyond the fact that someone wants some booty.
Killing off a bottle of wine or gallon of ice cream (or both) because you-know-who didn't call.
Directing anger and hostility toward "other women" (it's really not about them, is it?)
Letting what someone else does or says (or doesn't do or say) dictate how you feel about yourself.
Staying in a relationship that doesn't work for you anymore just to protect someone's feelings, or because you're afraid of being alone.
What are you willing to let go of along with 2009? What do you want more of in 2010, and what are you willing to do in order to get it?
Happy New Year,
The BreakUp Coach
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